The Winkie is a stand to pee device that comes with 10" of food grade silicone tubing. Silicone is hydrophobic and nonporus so it won't build bacteria. Making it safer than rubber or vinyl tubing. TRIGGER WARNING: The Winkie is meant to be placed between the labia under the urethra as pictured. Once it is in place simply move your hand out toward the end of the tubing to direct the urine flow. Once you're done you will need to break the seal to let the trapped urine out. Tilt your pelvis and pull the Winkie forward. Shake out remaining drips. Due to the nature of our products once the bag is opened there is no returns and no refunds. If there is a manufacturing defect we will replace your item. If you are unsatisfied with the color talk to us.